At least with this breakup it's the anal sex I get to miss.

Still, I manage to amuse my self with this article from the beeb about dominatrixes.

This woman rocks.

"For him, it's really about the sacrifice and the service.

So when we get into heavy flogging, it's important for him to be in a sacred ritual space.

We don't engage in any verbal back-and-forth. It becomes a moment for meditation and silence and contemplation.

The only thing you usually hear is the sound of the whip on his skin.

I've achieved the power over men that I experience through, first and foremost, being able to feel complete control over myself, being able to define for myself very clearly what I want to get of a relationship."

Oh Goddess Vanessa, teach me.